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"Dad, don't tell them anything about me anymore, even if I'm dying"
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 676820" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>On another note, bullies need an audience. If we won't watch them or let them part the curtains, that spoils their fun.And it IS fun for bullies to bully. DON'T LET THEM.</p><p></p><p>The social media has made it easy to bully without face time, even if the bully says "I am shunning you" In whatever words they want to use, such as "no contact which equals a shun." Don't go to their FB pages. Yes, it's easy, even if they block you. I know. When I was still peaking, it wasn't hard to see the blocked FBs, but for what purpose? Do NOT read or go to any internet sites they use. Don't look for them ANYWHERE and run if you find them because THEY won't leave. They want to hoover us back in, even if only to read the mean things they write about us to anonymous forums. DO NOT READ WHAT THEY SAY. They are counting on us to read what they say and be hurt again. Their purpose in life is to hurt.</p><p></p><p>There is a site I used long ago and for a long time and she found it and posts there now. I decided I won't go there anymore or look there. I never go to the Borderline (BPD) site she used to post on, maybe she was banned and needed a new place, but I refuse to read anything written by her. It is my choice to disengage.</p><p></p><p>It is your choice too.</p><p></p><p>We don't have to know what the bullies are doing or saying. To do so, is a WIN for them and a LOSS for us.</p><p></p><p>I want to win for the rest of my life. I lost enough. I will not engage. Ever.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 676820, member: 1550"] On another note, bullies need an audience. If we won't watch them or let them part the curtains, that spoils their fun.And it IS fun for bullies to bully. DON'T LET THEM. The social media has made it easy to bully without face time, even if the bully says "I am shunning you" In whatever words they want to use, such as "no contact which equals a shun." Don't go to their FB pages. Yes, it's easy, even if they block you. I know. When I was still peaking, it wasn't hard to see the blocked FBs, but for what purpose? Do NOT read or go to any internet sites they use. Don't look for them ANYWHERE and run if you find them because THEY won't leave. They want to hoover us back in, even if only to read the mean things they write about us to anonymous forums. DO NOT READ WHAT THEY SAY. They are counting on us to read what they say and be hurt again. Their purpose in life is to hurt. There is a site I used long ago and for a long time and she found it and posts there now. I decided I won't go there anymore or look there. I never go to the Borderline (BPD) site she used to post on, maybe she was banned and needed a new place, but I refuse to read anything written by her. It is my choice to disengage. It is your choice too. We don't have to know what the bullies are doing or saying. To do so, is a WIN for them and a LOSS for us. I want to win for the rest of my life. I lost enough. I will not engage. Ever. [/QUOTE]
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