This has been happening but everything blew up last week . My daughter is 24 lives with her boyfriend who owns his own business and works very hard. She has been unemployed yet she has made a nice income on eBay . She is not on drugs and has a great disposition so I thought. Over the past few months my husband and I have noticed 100 200 dollars missing from bill money here and there. Thought we were going nuts . She is constantly buying very expensive items Gucci bags, loubaton shoes etc very high end items. Telling us her boyfriend is paying for it. No reason not to believe. I was holding money for my other daughter when I recounted the money 500 missing. Now I am saying hmmmmm somethings wrong. I had 18,000 in a spot I thought was a secret. Which was money left to me by my deceased mom . Go to that spot all the money is gone!!!!!!! Needless to say I lost my mind accusing everyone in the house. No one did it. I told everyone including my own husband they would have to take a lie detector she says she is not taking it . I should believe her!!!! This goes on a good week her ignoring calls no texts nothing. We have a last talk before I write her off she finally admits it. Says she is doing it over a year. She says she has a problem with buying she will get help , she will pay back the money. I have so many emotions and don't have a clue how to deal with this please help!!!!