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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 705376" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>After reading more, I wonder if rather than just being negative she may have sensory issues too.</p><p></p><p>Although people without than One kid may enjoy being with one kid more than another, in my opinion it is not okay to show favoritism unless the adult child is a safety threat. I had the clear knowledge that I was the least favored in my home and it caused me a lot of pain</p><p> Some of it was that I had more problems but that wasn't my fault.</p><p></p><p>It is always easier to be around an adult child who achieves well and makes us feel good. Sometimes it is the least pleasant, fun, rewarding child who needs our acceptance the most. The adoption issue compounds any feelings of being left out...i never planned on only adopting one child for this very reason.</p><p></p><p>Life can be hard for a child who feels left out even though he/She did not break the law. I know first hand.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 705376, member: 1550"] After reading more, I wonder if rather than just being negative she may have sensory issues too. Although people without than One kid may enjoy being with one kid more than another, in my opinion it is not okay to show favoritism unless the adult child is a safety threat. I had the clear knowledge that I was the least favored in my home and it caused me a lot of pain Some of it was that I had more problems but that wasn't my fault. It is always easier to be around an adult child who achieves well and makes us feel good. Sometimes it is the least pleasant, fun, rewarding child who needs our acceptance the most. The adoption issue compounds any feelings of being left out...i never planned on only adopting one child for this very reason. Life can be hard for a child who feels left out even though he/She did not break the law. I know first hand. [/QUOTE]
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