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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 665159" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I am sorry, but I will be blunt. You are being disrespected and abused by both kids. And I am angry for you.</p><p></p><p>If I am understanding, your daughter in law used you to make the birthday cake(s) and then dis-invited you from the party. They know full well you do not drive and could not get there. What they did was extremely cold and cruel. If they do not want you around, at least they can buy their own cakes.</p><p></p><p>You deserve respect. Nobody will give it to you if you do not insist it is your right. Bottom line.</p><p></p><p>I understand you want a relationship with your grandchildren.</p><p></p><p>Do you think it is good for them to see you degraded?</p><p>And as for your daughter, she was in your house. She did not have to come. You are entitled to keep your house any way you want to. It is yours.</p><p>You do not have to justify yourself to anybody. Not one bit.</p><p>This is cruel, too. She did not have to tell you in this way. She could have offered to come over and help you. She could have said, "Mom, you have so much on your plate. Let me come over on Saturday and we can vacuum and dust. XX is sensitive to the cat hair.</p><p>You need to think about your priorities, here. Your grandchildren see how their parents treat you. If they are too young now, they will soon see. Nor is it good for your children to disrespect their mother. But most importantly, you. Your welfare. Your feelings about yourself.</p><p></p><p>You deserve to be valued by YOU. You deserve to be protected by YOU. Nobody else will take care of YOU. Except YOU. </p><p></p><p>I care about you. I want you to receive the treatment in this life you deserve. I CARE. Take care of yourself.</p><p></p><p>Am I getting my point across??????</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 665159, member: 18958"] I am sorry, but I will be blunt. You are being disrespected and abused by both kids. And I am angry for you. If I am understanding, your daughter in law used you to make the birthday cake(s) and then dis-invited you from the party. They know full well you do not drive and could not get there. What they did was extremely cold and cruel. If they do not want you around, at least they can buy their own cakes. You deserve respect. Nobody will give it to you if you do not insist it is your right. Bottom line. I understand you want a relationship with your grandchildren. Do you think it is good for them to see you degraded? And as for your daughter, she was in your house. She did not have to come. You are entitled to keep your house any way you want to. It is yours. You do not have to justify yourself to anybody. Not one bit. This is cruel, too. She did not have to tell you in this way. She could have offered to come over and help you. She could have said, "Mom, you have so much on your plate. Let me come over on Saturday and we can vacuum and dust. XX is sensitive to the cat hair. You need to think about your priorities, here. Your grandchildren see how their parents treat you. If they are too young now, they will soon see. Nor is it good for your children to disrespect their mother. But most importantly, you. Your welfare. Your feelings about yourself. You deserve to be valued by YOU. You deserve to be protected by YOU. Nobody else will take care of YOU. Except YOU. I care about you. I want you to receive the treatment in this life you deserve. I CARE. Take care of yourself. Am I getting my point across?????? [/QUOTE]
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