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Daughter and daughter in law both being horrible to m
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 665161" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>This is hard to advise. I can only tell ypu that I would rather not know my grands than have to put up with that sort of abuse to see them. In the case of five year old you didnt see her anyway.</p><p></p><p>Both of these women acted with mean intent. Is this how they normally treat you? If so id be tempted to put distance between us. Im a grandmother which is not the same as a mother. How much I can see my grands and how close I can get to them is 100 percent up to the parents.</p><p>I would not give up my dignity t o cstch snippets of the grands, at their whim, seeing their mothers abuse me. Its a hard decision but if the parents want to treat you like dirt, your quality of relationship with the grands wont be good anyway.</p><p>Do not give up beloved pets for anyone. Daughter was thinking of reasons to beat you up.</p><p>Have you considered getting your license so you can live a fuller, more independent life? You matter and nobody deserves that sort of ugly abuse. You cant change these people but you csn change how you choose to interact with them.</p><p>If you ever give them money, id end that today. They both dont sound like very nice people. I am sorry for your hurting heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 665161, member: 1550"] This is hard to advise. I can only tell ypu that I would rather not know my grands than have to put up with that sort of abuse to see them. In the case of five year old you didnt see her anyway. Both of these women acted with mean intent. Is this how they normally treat you? If so id be tempted to put distance between us. Im a grandmother which is not the same as a mother. How much I can see my grands and how close I can get to them is 100 percent up to the parents. I would not give up my dignity t o cstch snippets of the grands, at their whim, seeing their mothers abuse me. Its a hard decision but if the parents want to treat you like dirt, your quality of relationship with the grands wont be good anyway. Do not give up beloved pets for anyone. Daughter was thinking of reasons to beat you up. Have you considered getting your license so you can live a fuller, more independent life? You matter and nobody deserves that sort of ugly abuse. You cant change these people but you csn change how you choose to interact with them. If you ever give them money, id end that today. They both dont sound like very nice people. I am sorry for your hurting heart. [/QUOTE]
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