Hi Im 54 I am new on here and I am thankful I found this site I am in need of someone to talk to. My daughter is 31 years old and has hurt me for the last time, I dont know if I can ever for give her for this one! She has abused mentally talks horrible to me. She has torn the hole family apart. My son will not speak to me. My mother used to tell me that it was her doing all of this but I didnt want to believe her. Now I do and it is to late to tell Mom she was right for she passed away 7 years ago. My daughter constantly bashes me. I have been so good to her. Helped her with money, Car payments, Deposits Clothes what ever I can. I am single and her Daddy and I have been divorced for 23 years. She blames me for every thing that go's wrong in her life. She down grades me uses me for my clothes when she need something thats when she comes around other wise Im not good enought! Shes on a cruise right now with all women no men where going. It has been planned for 4 months. With her mother ln Law that is the same age as me. Her mother in laws sister, Friends . I know them all and we get along fine. I ask my daughter if I could go too and she said No your not family! I never been so hurt in my life! Her Mother in Law just posted a picture of her and my daughter on the ship on facebook . I cant even look at it with out crying. I feel so alone, used, hurt. I tried to tell my daughter before she left that I feel left out and hurt and she said sorry thats to bad Mom just get over it! I cant even look at these picks and dont know how I can for give her for doing me this way. I loved her and treat her so good when she is ugly to me I just brush it off I take her to lunch invite her to go shopping with me. I ask her to go with me and my friends all the time. She tells me I am her Mom and her best friend! Apperantly thats not true. I always for give her but this time I just dont know!