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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 704290" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Your daughter already knows where to go when she is unwell. She is there now. She also may also qualify for SSDI.</p><p></p><p> There is nothing you can do and she is already aware of what to do. Some people are unwilling to do what they need to do to get a mental illness under control.</p><p></p><p>If she is borderline it requires extremely hard work. She is 45. Will she change? The longer she is like this, the less the chance.</p><p></p><p>You can change though and live out your years happily. I hope you do since there is absolutely nothing you can do for middle age kids who have always been like they are. You can't really influence them...it is hard enough to influence a stubborn 21 year old.</p><p></p><p>Worrying this way about your kids who are not young and have got to handle their choices alone could cut your life span down a lot. I think that would sadden your loved ones. Stress is so bad for your health.</p><p></p><p>Do you take care of you? Eat healthy? Exercise? Have you tried meditation? I love meditation and since doing it my stress level is at an all time law. I use guided meditation from youtube.</p><p></p><p>You matter.</p><p></p><p>Are you still going to travel? I'd love to hear that your focus is now on you <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 704290, member: 1550"] Your daughter already knows where to go when she is unwell. She is there now. She also may also qualify for SSDI. There is nothing you can do and she is already aware of what to do. Some people are unwilling to do what they need to do to get a mental illness under control. If she is borderline it requires extremely hard work. She is 45. Will she change? The longer she is like this, the less the chance. You can change though and live out your years happily. I hope you do since there is absolutely nothing you can do for middle age kids who have always been like they are. You can't really influence them...it is hard enough to influence a stubborn 21 year old. Worrying this way about your kids who are not young and have got to handle their choices alone could cut your life span down a lot. I think that would sadden your loved ones. Stress is so bad for your health. Do you take care of you? Eat healthy? Exercise? Have you tried meditation? I love meditation and since doing it my stress level is at an all time law. I use guided meditation from youtube. You matter. Are you still going to travel? I'd love to hear that your focus is now on you :) [/QUOTE]
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