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Daughter is 22 and has cut us out of her life am devastated.....
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<blockquote data-quote="JHe17" data-source="post: 684054" data-attributes="member: 20227"><p>Please help. My daughter is 22 and is just finishing her last year at Uni. We always thought we had a lovely relationship. We lent her £22000 to go to Uni on understanding she would start to pay back when she got a job. Out of the blue she emailed us to say that we were awful parents and had mentally abused her for years and were controlling and manipulative. She said that she was entitled to our money and it was unfair of us to expect her to pay any of it back and so she was simply not going too. She has refused to answer her phone or texts. Her friend said she was fine just stressed over her Dissertation. We decided as her Dissertation was due in 2 weeks we would wait until then to try and get hold of her again. On the day she handed in her Dissertation she emailed us again telling us we were horrible and didn't love or care about her and had not tried hard enough to contact her and therefore she wanted no further contact from us and that this was our decision and not hers as if we had tried harder she wouldn't have done this!!!!!!. She has changed her mobile number and her friends are now not responding to us either. We called the Uni and they said that she is considered an adult (i know that!!) and as such she can do as she likes basically. She has done this sort of thing before but not this venomous or vindictive. She told us over the Summer that she would get a job in her own good time and that it was nothing to do with us. She is very self centred and rarely asks how any family member is. She has clearly lied to her friends about us and am so very angry and cross with the whole situation. Have thought about suicide as I cannot imagine life without her in it. I just don't know what to do.</p><p></p><p>Any advice please</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JHe17, post: 684054, member: 20227"] Please help. My daughter is 22 and is just finishing her last year at Uni. We always thought we had a lovely relationship. We lent her £22000 to go to Uni on understanding she would start to pay back when she got a job. Out of the blue she emailed us to say that we were awful parents and had mentally abused her for years and were controlling and manipulative. She said that she was entitled to our money and it was unfair of us to expect her to pay any of it back and so she was simply not going too. She has refused to answer her phone or texts. Her friend said she was fine just stressed over her Dissertation. We decided as her Dissertation was due in 2 weeks we would wait until then to try and get hold of her again. On the day she handed in her Dissertation she emailed us again telling us we were horrible and didn't love or care about her and had not tried hard enough to contact her and therefore she wanted no further contact from us and that this was our decision and not hers as if we had tried harder she wouldn't have done this!!!!!!. She has changed her mobile number and her friends are now not responding to us either. We called the Uni and they said that she is considered an adult (i know that!!) and as such she can do as she likes basically. She has done this sort of thing before but not this venomous or vindictive. She told us over the Summer that she would get a job in her own good time and that it was nothing to do with us. She is very self centred and rarely asks how any family member is. She has clearly lied to her friends about us and am so very angry and cross with the whole situation. Have thought about suicide as I cannot imagine life without her in it. I just don't know what to do. Any advice please [/QUOTE]
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