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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 673848" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi Rosybird, I have been right where you are with this. One day so much disrespect, then, asking for something. It is hard. I am sorry for what you are going through. Even though our d cs can have so much venom, we still love them and worry for them.</p><p> It is difficult to hear these things from our d cs. I have learned that waiting is always good. It is a world of chaos and drama, they live in, and we get dragged into it when they come to us with sad stories. They know just how to tug at our heart strings. Take some time for yourself, Rosybird, you have time to think things over.</p><p></p><p> This is true. I do think we become easy targets, and our mommy love is walked upon. I do not think they think of us the same way we are thinking of them. When my girls are using, it is not just drugs they use, sadly, it is us, too.</p><p></p><p> This is true.</p><p> Yes, indeed, there is no excuse for the manipulation. It is hard to know what to do. It is true that there is help out there, but they do not want to follow the rules.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I think this is good advice. Money is just a way for them to buy drugs. We love our d cs and do not want to see them suffer, but, what are their choices? How did they get this way? These are consequences of their paths that they choose.</p><p>My daughter is out there, too. I see her from time to time. Somedays she is raggedy and depressed. Saturday, she came up to the house all bubbly, on a moped, she said she "found" it. HUH. Well, I do not think people just throw those things away.</p><p>This is very tricky, dealing with my d cs drug use and the choices they make. It is not the lifestyle I would live, or wish upon them. They are adults and there is nothing I can do to stop them from going down the road they are on. We already tried many times, to no avail.</p><p>So, now it is about building ourselves up, and living our lives. Deciding in our right minds, not on their chaotic, drama timeframe, when and what we should or should not do for them. The determining factor being, will they use this "help" to continue using drugs?</p><p>It is a fine line, loving detachment. Have you read the article in the P.E forum? It is a good reminder for me.</p><p></p><p>Take care Rosybird, you are not alone, it is hard. You have a life and great value. I hope you are able to take precious time to build yourself up.</p><p></p><p>Peace to you</p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 673848, member: 19522"] Hi Rosybird, I have been right where you are with this. One day so much disrespect, then, asking for something. It is hard. I am sorry for what you are going through. Even though our d cs can have so much venom, we still love them and worry for them. It is difficult to hear these things from our d cs. I have learned that waiting is always good. It is a world of chaos and drama, they live in, and we get dragged into it when they come to us with sad stories. They know just how to tug at our heart strings. Take some time for yourself, Rosybird, you have time to think things over. This is true. I do think we become easy targets, and our mommy love is walked upon. I do not think they think of us the same way we are thinking of them. When my girls are using, it is not just drugs they use, sadly, it is us, too. This is true. Yes, indeed, there is no excuse for the manipulation. It is hard to know what to do. It is true that there is help out there, but they do not want to follow the rules. I think this is good advice. Money is just a way for them to buy drugs. We love our d cs and do not want to see them suffer, but, what are their choices? How did they get this way? These are consequences of their paths that they choose. My daughter is out there, too. I see her from time to time. Somedays she is raggedy and depressed. Saturday, she came up to the house all bubbly, on a moped, she said she "found" it. HUH. Well, I do not think people just throw those things away. This is very tricky, dealing with my d cs drug use and the choices they make. It is not the lifestyle I would live, or wish upon them. They are adults and there is nothing I can do to stop them from going down the road they are on. We already tried many times, to no avail. So, now it is about building ourselves up, and living our lives. Deciding in our right minds, not on their chaotic, drama timeframe, when and what we should or should not do for them. The determining factor being, will they use this "help" to continue using drugs? It is a fine line, loving detachment. Have you read the article in the P.E forum? It is a good reminder for me. Take care Rosybird, you are not alone, it is hard. You have a life and great value. I hope you are able to take precious time to build yourself up. Peace to you (((HUGS))) leafy [/QUOTE]
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