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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 707303" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I will chime in both my sadness for you and that since Callie was not her mother and you were asked not to tell her, everything is not a family affair...nothing splits families spart like telling things told in confidence. My mom did that and I learned not to tell her anything and we were estranged. </p><p></p><p>If somebody says "dont tell"...before they even tell YOU maybe say,"Then its best I dont know what I am not supposed to tell."</p><p></p><p>Hopefully this will die down with a heartfelt apology. I eould tell them in person. It means more in my opinion than a letter that they may be too angry to read or may misinterpret. Your family dynamics will determine how this plays out.</p><p></p><p>Please dont spend time beating yourself up. We all make decisions that we later find upsets others. The key is not to talk about this to callie anymore.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and love snd so much good wishes</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 707303, member: 1550"] I will chime in both my sadness for you and that since Callie was not her mother and you were asked not to tell her, everything is not a family affair...nothing splits families spart like telling things told in confidence. My mom did that and I learned not to tell her anything and we were estranged. If somebody says "dont tell"...before they even tell YOU maybe say,"Then its best I dont know what I am not supposed to tell." Hopefully this will die down with a heartfelt apology. I eould tell them in person. It means more in my opinion than a letter that they may be too angry to read or may misinterpret. Your family dynamics will determine how this plays out. Please dont spend time beating yourself up. We all make decisions that we later find upsets others. The key is not to talk about this to callie anymore. Hugs and love snd so much good wishes [/QUOTE]
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