My 19 year old daughter is out of control. She doesn't work and sleeps all day and has uncontrollable outbursts. She has been cutting herself for years, and when I got her doctor to agree she needed to be committed she stopped cutting and started using heroin and pills. She has overdosed twice and almost died. She will not listen to my rules and does what she wants even though I punish her she doesn't listen. I've had her in rehab and her counselor told me she was a pathological liar and sexually promiscuous. She is having sex with multiple partners at the same time. She is constantly sneaking her boyfriend in when he is not supposed to be there. She was just got grounded for 2 months and is not listening. Now she's saying that my boyfriend of 20 years has been sexually abusing her for years. I don't know whether to believe that or not but I did move out with her until I know one way or the other. When she doesn't get what she wants she starts all sorts of . I can't throw her out of my home because in NY the parent is financially responsible for their children till 21. If I throw her out I have to pay all her living expenses for the next 2 years. Is there anyway to terminate my parental rights or have her removed from the home with out having to pay for her living expenses. I don't think it is fair that I have to pay for her at 19 years old. I can't tell here what to do, I can't get information from the doctor anymore because she is legally an adult however I still have to pay for her. Please help at my wits end.