please read my initial posts for background on my daughter. Well on Thursday my son and I are supposed to drive 8 hours to see my granddaughter that we havent seen in 9 months since her dads funeral. Well she told my granddaughter that we could see her when my son asked a few weeks ago. So he got time off to go and now my granddaughter wont answer our texts or FaceTime calls that she always has answered my son within a day or so. Nothing now for 9 days. The other grandmother doesn’t want to get involved and doesn’t want to get into a bad place with my nasty daughter. So I figured this was going to happen. I feel so angry and hurt. I miss my granddaughter. My daughter i am done with her. She just keeps hurting me. Now it hurts my granddaughter and my son. The upside is i have my 5 year old grandson that my daughter abandoned a year ago this week. Its hard to keep my mouth shut and not let her know how i feel. Clean off heroin for a year and meaner than ever. We are going up still to try to see her at a hockey game. Its a public place