pasajes4
Well-Known Member
My precious 40 yr. old daughter and my 15 year old grandson have moved in with me. It was totally unexpected and has turned my life upside down ...again.
My daughter is one of the sweetest people on the face of the earth and works long hard hours to provide for her family. She has had one man in her life period. She met him when she was 15 and married him at 20. She payed for college on her own and bought and paid for a house in 15 years time. Her husband could never hold down a job and it became pretty obvious that he was dealing with depression, anxiety, and mood swings. He was diagnosed and put on medication which he hated and refused to take. He did hustle and find odd jobs to cover his wants but never enough to help out. My daughter was ok with this and never complained. I kept my mouth shut even though it chapped my hide that she worked this hard.
Fast forward to july. He becane delusional and thought that the government had planted a camera in her eye to spy on him (ther were other things such as government cars were following him everywhere). He decided to get a butcher knife to cut the camera out of her eye. She grabbed my gs and some clothes and has been here ever since.
I don't know what she intends to do or how long this arrangement will last. I am letting her figure things out and learned real quick to keep my opinions to myself.
It is so hard to watch all of this play out.
My daughter is one of the sweetest people on the face of the earth and works long hard hours to provide for her family. She has had one man in her life period. She met him when she was 15 and married him at 20. She payed for college on her own and bought and paid for a house in 15 years time. Her husband could never hold down a job and it became pretty obvious that he was dealing with depression, anxiety, and mood swings. He was diagnosed and put on medication which he hated and refused to take. He did hustle and find odd jobs to cover his wants but never enough to help out. My daughter was ok with this and never complained. I kept my mouth shut even though it chapped my hide that she worked this hard.
Fast forward to july. He becane delusional and thought that the government had planted a camera in her eye to spy on him (ther were other things such as government cars were following him everywhere). He decided to get a butcher knife to cut the camera out of her eye. She grabbed my gs and some clothes and has been here ever since.
I don't know what she intends to do or how long this arrangement will last. I am letting her figure things out and learned real quick to keep my opinions to myself.
It is so hard to watch all of this play out.