I am new to this board and thought it would be a good place to ask this question - haven't heard an answer from new therapist yet. Dot is 8 yrs old, adopted at birth, seemed normal until 3.5, when Dad died from cancer. She was potty trained at 3, but started wetting every day through to now. She does keep dry at night, been examined, has everyone trying to help her be successful, kicked out of preschool for wetting, yada, yada, yada. Definitely disconnected from her physical warning signs, but refusing to get on a regular preventative schedule. (Long, boring, frustrating, confrontational/tantrumatic story). She pees on her bedroom carpet all the time when she's mad at me, too. I think the only way she will get beyond this is to sign her up for some kind of day-treatment at a facility where I check her in every morning for a week and they only focus on this until she stays dry herself. Even if she just goes along with it, it would be an improvement. Has anyone heard of such a thing or done something this drastic? It's been going on so long and seems to have no end.... Thanks for any guidance!