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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 699427" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I love to watch the true crime chsnnel, Investigative Discovery, and have heard many police officers explain how you can pretty much tell the solid truth from a lie. I find it useful aND in my opinion foolproof. It has never let me down, even when I was doubtful or confused</p><p></p><p>People telling the truth make good eye contact, talk clearly, and have one story. No matter how often they tell the story it doesn't change. It is easy to remember details of a true story. They don't back track or mix up story details. You are not confused by the clear story.</p><p></p><p>A lie is skittish, inconsistant. A lie changes with time. A lie erupts into excuses and, "I forgots." A lie is hard to remember. Often the person says "I didn't say that" (gaslighting you to think you did not really hear what he said) or "I didn't mean that." A lie can leave you confused because the story keeps changing. You wonder what is real about the lie and what isn't, or if you just didn't hear right.</p><p></p><p>This makes a lot of sense to me. It is how I can tell if somebody is being forthright or evasive.</p><p></p><p>Think about how you yourself tell others true stories.</p><p></p><p>I really value this advice I heard from those who listen to various people accused of serious crimes. If you read or watch true crime, you know that the one who really did it usually starts with one story, then changes it a little each time until finally caught or confessing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 699427, member: 1550"] I love to watch the true crime chsnnel, Investigative Discovery, and have heard many police officers explain how you can pretty much tell the solid truth from a lie. I find it useful aND in my opinion foolproof. It has never let me down, even when I was doubtful or confused People telling the truth make good eye contact, talk clearly, and have one story. No matter how often they tell the story it doesn't change. It is easy to remember details of a true story. They don't back track or mix up story details. You are not confused by the clear story. A lie is skittish, inconsistant. A lie changes with time. A lie erupts into excuses and, "I forgots." A lie is hard to remember. Often the person says "I didn't say that" (gaslighting you to think you did not really hear what he said) or "I didn't mean that." A lie can leave you confused because the story keeps changing. You wonder what is real about the lie and what isn't, or if you just didn't hear right. This makes a lot of sense to me. It is how I can tell if somebody is being forthright or evasive. Think about how you yourself tell others true stories. I really value this advice I heard from those who listen to various people accused of serious crimes. If you read or watch true crime, you know that the one who really did it usually starts with one story, then changes it a little each time until finally caught or confessing. [/QUOTE]
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