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Dealing with difficult child's children, our grandchildren
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 626435" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Unfortunately, you're right.</p><p></p><p>I would never withhold my children from their grandparents... Unless there was a very good reason.</p><p></p><p>1. Biogma. She is in touch with Belle. Pat threw her off our property and does not wish to see her. Not that she's tried. Her loss. (Biogpa passed in 2007.)</p><p>2. mother in law. She's toxic. Belle and Pat dislike her (as do my niece and nephew). It's not just me, or husband (or father in law or sister in law). And every time I think about being nice to her, she does something new to remind me that I will NOT subject my children to her vitriol.</p><p>3. father in law gets pictures and updates. husband may be happier with him not around constantly, but he's not evil. He's just childish. husband and I have agreed that the kids can see him if they wish.</p><p>3. My Mom. She has bent over backwards to welcome Belle and Pat into the family. They're named in my parents' will, even before Rose. Basically they are her grandchildren too and she could not care less about DNA.</p><p>4. My Dad. See my Mom.</p><p></p><p>So, basically, it's not a legal thing. It's a love thing. I would never refuse to allow my children to see their grandparents (except mother in law... who doesn't care anyway, thinks Belle and Pat are tainted because she did not like their mother).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 626435, member: 6705"] Unfortunately, you're right. I would never withhold my children from their grandparents... Unless there was a very good reason. 1. Biogma. She is in touch with Belle. Pat threw her off our property and does not wish to see her. Not that she's tried. Her loss. (Biogpa passed in 2007.) 2. mother in law. She's toxic. Belle and Pat dislike her (as do my niece and nephew). It's not just me, or husband (or father in law or sister in law). And every time I think about being nice to her, she does something new to remind me that I will NOT subject my children to her vitriol. 3. father in law gets pictures and updates. husband may be happier with him not around constantly, but he's not evil. He's just childish. husband and I have agreed that the kids can see him if they wish. 3. My Mom. She has bent over backwards to welcome Belle and Pat into the family. They're named in my parents' will, even before Rose. Basically they are her grandchildren too and she could not care less about DNA. 4. My Dad. See my Mom. So, basically, it's not a legal thing. It's a love thing. I would never refuse to allow my children to see their grandparents (except mother in law... who doesn't care anyway, thinks Belle and Pat are tainted because she did not like their mother). [/QUOTE]
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