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Dealing with difficult child's children, our grandchildren
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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 626467" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>How can we make something good of all of this? I think we can find other children we can love if we have love to give. </p><p></p><p>Maybe some other kind adult will come along and be that loving person for our grandchildren.</p><p></p><p>I have thought many times, oh, thank you God that difficult child doesn't have children (at least any that I know about). I can only imagine, and I have read here, from you, the additional layers that puts on all of this pain and agony. </p><p></p><p>But like MWM said, these are not our children. Even our own children are just on loan to us.</p><p></p><p>We are all connected in this world, I believe, but we are not tied to each other nor should we be.</p><p></p><p>I have no intention of raising a baby at this point, and I am profoundly grateful I have not been presented yet with that agonizing decision. I would have to say No. But I know it would be one of the hardest not otherwise specified to date.</p><p></p><p>There are so many programs that help people who want to be helped. One day soon I am going to get involved in a personal way---not just giving money, but connecting with the people there---and do something for somebody who wants help.</p><p></p><p>When I am ready.</p><p></p><p>Blessings to all of you and thanks for this thread.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 626467, member: 17542"] How can we make something good of all of this? I think we can find other children we can love if we have love to give. Maybe some other kind adult will come along and be that loving person for our grandchildren. I have thought many times, oh, thank you God that difficult child doesn't have children (at least any that I know about). I can only imagine, and I have read here, from you, the additional layers that puts on all of this pain and agony. But like MWM said, these are not our children. Even our own children are just on loan to us. We are all connected in this world, I believe, but we are not tied to each other nor should we be. I have no intention of raising a baby at this point, and I am profoundly grateful I have not been presented yet with that agonizing decision. I would have to say No. But I know it would be one of the hardest not otherwise specified to date. There are so many programs that help people who want to be helped. One day soon I am going to get involved in a personal way---not just giving money, but connecting with the people there---and do something for somebody who wants help. When I am ready. Blessings to all of you and thanks for this thread. [/QUOTE]
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