Sometimes in therapy we are told to write a letter to our abuser(s) and never send them. I never did it. I wouldn't even know what to say to my mother. Or anyone. I feel that anything I said, if they Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) it, would be invalidated. However, these are OUR letters. I'm going to think on this one. In the meantime, anyone up for a letter that you will never send?