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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 695259" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Yes. I let him use my laptop because I don't use it that often and can just as easily use my phone. I forgot to close the browser with the link open when I shut the computer. So...my fault. He said he only snooped because we "acted so weird" and I'm sure we did. After all, as I said, this is supposed to be private, like therapy, and only Jabber and I were to ever know what we discussed here. </p><p></p><p>But having read back over what I've written in the past, I don't care if he reads it. Sure, I'd rather this have never happened, but at worst he'll have his feelings hurt. At best, maybe he'll understand how his actions affect us. We've never said anything too terrible, even when we were lividly angry, because in the end, we love him. We DO want him to be a responsible young adult. We want him to support himself. We want him to find friends who don't use him. We want him to learn how to entertain himself and not have to run around all the time. We want him healthy and we want him happy. We want him to live on his own and have a good life. He's hurt us in the past. He's annoyed us. He's made us crazy. Through it all, we've wanted those things. If he can't understand that, I don't know what else to say.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 695259, member: 17309"] Yes. I let him use my laptop because I don't use it that often and can just as easily use my phone. I forgot to close the browser with the link open when I shut the computer. So...my fault. He said he only snooped because we "acted so weird" and I'm sure we did. After all, as I said, this is supposed to be private, like therapy, and only Jabber and I were to ever know what we discussed here. But having read back over what I've written in the past, I don't care if he reads it. Sure, I'd rather this have never happened, but at worst he'll have his feelings hurt. At best, maybe he'll understand how his actions affect us. We've never said anything too terrible, even when we were lividly angry, because in the end, we love him. We DO want him to be a responsible young adult. We want him to support himself. We want him to find friends who don't use him. We want him to learn how to entertain himself and not have to run around all the time. We want him healthy and we want him happy. We want him to live on his own and have a good life. He's hurt us in the past. He's annoyed us. He's made us crazy. Through it all, we've wanted those things. If he can't understand that, I don't know what else to say. [/QUOTE]
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