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Deep Breaths...trying to stay at least semi-detached
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 704061" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I never respond to your posts anymore. I feel they somehow hurt you and you are such a kind, caring, loving and, yes, forgiving soul. I never ever want to hurt you. I'm just sharing some wisdom I learned...no judgment is intended. Take it or leave it but it is to think on, not to harm. I feel it would stain me to harm a sweet spirit like you. And I will again stop responding to you after this.</p><p></p><p>This just jumped out at me and is fodder for thought, not critism.</p><p></p><p>You are your son's mature adult figure and I believe he watches you. I don't believe he is indifferent to your lifestyle, like some of our adult children are. So if you are not able to change to give yourself peace and the joy you deserve...how can you expect this of your son?</p><p></p><p>I think you are brilliant and can change for a saner life. You know what hurts you. You are self aware.</p><p></p><p>You can change and your son can change. If you change he may have a higher chance of doing so...our difficult adult children of all ages do change but many won't change if we tell them how to change...</p><p></p><p>I wish you a mended heart. I promise not to post to you again. Very much love to you and yours. I truly wrote this with deep caring and not for a response. We can all think about this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 704061, member: 1550"] I never respond to your posts anymore. I feel they somehow hurt you and you are such a kind, caring, loving and, yes, forgiving soul. I never ever want to hurt you. I'm just sharing some wisdom I learned...no judgment is intended. Take it or leave it but it is to think on, not to harm. I feel it would stain me to harm a sweet spirit like you. And I will again stop responding to you after this. This just jumped out at me and is fodder for thought, not critism. You are your son's mature adult figure and I believe he watches you. I don't believe he is indifferent to your lifestyle, like some of our adult children are. So if you are not able to change to give yourself peace and the joy you deserve...how can you expect this of your son? I think you are brilliant and can change for a saner life. You know what hurts you. You are self aware. You can change and your son can change. If you change he may have a higher chance of doing so...our difficult adult children of all ages do change but many won't change if we tell them how to change... I wish you a mended heart. I promise not to post to you again. Very much love to you and yours. I truly wrote this with deep caring and not for a response. We can all think about this. [/QUOTE]
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