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<blockquote data-quote="Espoir" data-source="post: 29070" data-attributes="member: 3580"><p>Hi, I'm new</p><p></p><p>I am facing issues with my newly turned four year old. We have some of the behaviors described in previous posts (defiance being one of them) but the one I want people's opinion on is the sheer delight my son gets from doing something naughty.</p><p></p><p>For example, there is a ladder in the garage. He knows he is not supposed to climb it. He does everything he can to sneak away, and into the garage, (including figuring out how to disable the motion sensor alarms my husband installed - he is very bright) and climb on it. When he is discovered, he lights up with glee, and seems almost to relish whatever consequence he is dealt out (I can list many we have tried) and can't wait for another opportunity to do it again. Only until he has worn me to a screaming frazzle will he stop, but only until the next day. Multiple this by about six other "no-no's" (ie climbing the cabinets, sneaking over to the neighbor's house) about fifty times a day, and this is my life. He just has no shame. I am cutting down on some of this behavior by providing him with a regimented schedule - "I was going to be a good boy, but I got bored" he tells me - but unless he is occupied and strictly supervised, it is an issue. I can't even let him go to the potty by himself, because he loves seeing how much toilet paper he can put in the potty.</p><p></p><p>He also loves playing imaginary games with lots of controversy, like "police man catches the bad guy, who then escapes from jail", etc.</p><p></p><p>Any thoughts, any help? Please?</p><p></p><p>me: late 30's RN</p><p>husband early 40's engineer</p><p>one well behaved little girl, age 9</p><p>one undiagnosed little imp, age 4</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Espoir, post: 29070, member: 3580"] Hi, I'm new I am facing issues with my newly turned four year old. We have some of the behaviors described in previous posts (defiance being one of them) but the one I want people's opinion on is the sheer delight my son gets from doing something naughty. For example, there is a ladder in the garage. He knows he is not supposed to climb it. He does everything he can to sneak away, and into the garage, (including figuring out how to disable the motion sensor alarms my husband installed - he is very bright) and climb on it. When he is discovered, he lights up with glee, and seems almost to relish whatever consequence he is dealt out (I can list many we have tried) and can't wait for another opportunity to do it again. Only until he has worn me to a screaming frazzle will he stop, but only until the next day. Multiple this by about six other "no-no's" (ie climbing the cabinets, sneaking over to the neighbor's house) about fifty times a day, and this is my life. He just has no shame. I am cutting down on some of this behavior by providing him with a regimented schedule - "I was going to be a good boy, but I got bored" he tells me - but unless he is occupied and strictly supervised, it is an issue. I can't even let him go to the potty by himself, because he loves seeing how much toilet paper he can put in the potty. He also loves playing imaginary games with lots of controversy, like "police man catches the bad guy, who then escapes from jail", etc. Any thoughts, any help? Please? me: late 30's RN husband early 40's engineer one well behaved little girl, age 9 one undiagnosed little imp, age 4 [/QUOTE]
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