I am a desperate single mom of a 22 year year old adult daughter with Borderline (BPD). She is in denial, has been for therapy when she was cutting herself and hospitalized a few times but discharged herself. She is currently going off all medications for her bipolar which I cannot stop as in South Africa you have no say once the child turns 18. I am desperate for help and advise. She lies to me all the time and has sold all her belongings just to buy smokes and sometimes alcohol. She said she needs to survive if I can't buy her smokes. Which I have actually been but now find myself in financial debt due to all her demands and giving her money to go out. I wish I knew how to cope with her and what to do. Can anyone advise me please? She is my life and all I want is for her to be happy.