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Despite my broken heart, we put my 16 year old son out of the house
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 725513" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi. This is an old, old and long thread. Yours may get lost and not read. The poster of this is not here anymore. You may want to start a new thread, if you want feedback</p><p></p><p>My thought immediately is that it is not too late for you to stop the abuse of you and your generosity. Of course you and husband need to be on the same page so therapy needs to happen if husband is in any sort of denial.</p><p></p><p>If this were my daughter, she would never get a dime for school if she were prostituting ??? and not doing college the normal way. It's our money, we can impose standards. She is harming herself and I wouldn't pay a dime for anything for her to be harming herself. Also, you and Dad need to get of one mind if she comes home and visits.</p><p></p><p>I get why you don't want her home.</p><p></p><p>I hope you can get help to come together over what measures to take regarding this daughter. Nothing will change for the better unless YOU change. You can't control your daughter but you can decide if she gets your money, visits or how much you are willing to see her. And you have total control over how you interact with husband. If your husband refuses therapy I think you should go yourself, to learn how to cope with daughter and your husband too. Be good to yourself. It is never too late to learn to love and pamper yourself and to let go of other's drama, even beloved children and spouses.</p><p></p><p>Love and hugs!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 725513, member: 1550"] Hi. This is an old, old and long thread. Yours may get lost and not read. The poster of this is not here anymore. You may want to start a new thread, if you want feedback My thought immediately is that it is not too late for you to stop the abuse of you and your generosity. Of course you and husband need to be on the same page so therapy needs to happen if husband is in any sort of denial. If this were my daughter, she would never get a dime for school if she were prostituting ??? and not doing college the normal way. It's our money, we can impose standards. She is harming herself and I wouldn't pay a dime for anything for her to be harming herself. Also, you and Dad need to get of one mind if she comes home and visits. I get why you don't want her home. I hope you can get help to come together over what measures to take regarding this daughter. Nothing will change for the better unless YOU change. You can't control your daughter but you can decide if she gets your money, visits or how much you are willing to see her. And you have total control over how you interact with husband. If your husband refuses therapy I think you should go yourself, to learn how to cope with daughter and your husband too. Be good to yourself. It is never too late to learn to love and pamper yourself and to let go of other's drama, even beloved children and spouses. Love and hugs! [/QUOTE]
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