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<blockquote data-quote="jbrain" data-source="post: 47551" data-attributes="member: 3450"><p>Hey MeowBunny,</p><p>sounds like we have the same dtr! You'll get there--it will be a relief too. I have come to the place where I realize I will never know "why" and I just go on with my life now. I don't feel guilty, don't wonder what else I could have done to fix her, don't wonder if the things I did wrong made her the way she is, etc. I accept her for who she is not for who I thought she could be. I still love her and like your dtr mine has some great qualities such as good sense of humor, friendly, fun to be with, etc. Sure, she also lies and steals and basically is dishonest but she has to live with herself, not me. I can enjoy her on a surface, casual basis and that's good enough. I am glad to be to this point, you will get there too.</p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Jane</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jbrain, post: 47551, member: 3450"] Hey MeowBunny, sounds like we have the same dtr! You'll get there--it will be a relief too. I have come to the place where I realize I will never know "why" and I just go on with my life now. I don't feel guilty, don't wonder what else I could have done to fix her, don't wonder if the things I did wrong made her the way she is, etc. I accept her for who she is not for who I thought she could be. I still love her and like your dtr mine has some great qualities such as good sense of humor, friendly, fun to be with, etc. Sure, she also lies and steals and basically is dishonest but she has to live with herself, not me. I can enjoy her on a surface, casual basis and that's good enough. I am glad to be to this point, you will get there too. Hugs, Jane [/QUOTE]
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