Sigh every step with difficult child is difficult. He went to detox in Ocotber, then 30 days of rehab, then 1 day a week of IOP. He has 5 months sober which is good. He has been seemed open to stay in Florida for year but yesterday his therapist called and said he wants to come back when it starts to get hot in Florida which I assume will be very soon. So I started feeling stressed about thinking I need to get back to Alanon meetings to prepare myself mentally for that. During the day today he texted that he joined a fitness center for $50 a month which I had mixed feeling about. The positive was with the therapist had previously indicated that working out was one of things that helped him the most so I guess he was trying to help himself but do I think this was a bit expensive. It sounds as though he took a more expensive plan to so he could take his friends. Sigh he is gullible so my guess is the place upsold him on the membership. Then I came home from work and his bank had left a message. My guess was it had something to do with the work out center since he has never figured out how to get and use checks. So we texted and him and it turns out he lost his wallet today and all of his ID. 1,000 miles away with no ID and possibly all of his money gone. I guess the good new is this took my mind off the fact that he may be coming home soon.