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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 49191" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>I don't see what you have written as "Detachment 101 Failure", you are simply choosing a different route from traditional detaching right now. It isn't a choice most of us would make but it is your choice to make, not ours. You are the only person who knows what you can and can't live with.</p><p></p><p>Instead of viewing this as a failure, stop beating yourself up and start writing the contract terms for difficult child's return. It sounds as if you are convinced it's going to happen eventually so you might as well start doing the concrete steps so that your plan is in place when the time arrives. Perhaps having a concrete plan and being "prepared" will help alleviate some of your unease and depression.</p><p></p><p>Best of luck!</p><p></p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 49191, member: 29"] I don't see what you have written as "Detachment 101 Failure", you are simply choosing a different route from traditional detaching right now. It isn't a choice most of us would make but it is your choice to make, not ours. You are the only person who knows what you can and can't live with. Instead of viewing this as a failure, stop beating yourself up and start writing the contract terms for difficult child's return. It sounds as if you are convinced it's going to happen eventually so you might as well start doing the concrete steps so that your plan is in place when the time arrives. Perhaps having a concrete plan and being "prepared" will help alleviate some of your unease and depression. Best of luck! Suz [/QUOTE]
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