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<blockquote data-quote="GoingNorth" data-source="post: 699708" data-attributes="member: 1963"><p>I misread that as well, but moving that far from work when transportation has already been an issue is just foolish, and I doubt he's going to even think of drawing up some sort of legal contract with his roommate(s).</p><p></p><p>I don't know why the exact date would be up in the air, unless its a situation like with my apartment where between the time I first looked at it, and when the then current tenants were finally evicted, they did a lot of damage that had to be repaired.</p><p></p><p>In my case, I was given a couple of move-in dates that had to be pushed out because the work hadn't been completed. Then, once the work was completed, I had to inspect the apartment and found a few other things that had to be corrected, which took another few days. So, all in all, it took about 6 weeks for my apartment to be ready to move into and I didn't know at the beginning when I'd be able to move in. Luckily, I had friends to stay with.</p><p></p><p>This is also a large complex owned by a huge real-estate company with complexes in 4 states. I assume, with your son's background and history, that he is moving into a smaller community, or a single property, such as a 4 or 8-flat.</p><p></p><p>I hope it works out for him. You've done enough. What concerns me is that he still doesn't seem able to manage money very well, and he doesn't seem to have much of a work ethic.</p><p></p><p>And this "fear of living alone" thing, which I think is a very real fear, needs to be explored in therapy and dealt with.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GoingNorth, post: 699708, member: 1963"] I misread that as well, but moving that far from work when transportation has already been an issue is just foolish, and I doubt he's going to even think of drawing up some sort of legal contract with his roommate(s). I don't know why the exact date would be up in the air, unless its a situation like with my apartment where between the time I first looked at it, and when the then current tenants were finally evicted, they did a lot of damage that had to be repaired. In my case, I was given a couple of move-in dates that had to be pushed out because the work hadn't been completed. Then, once the work was completed, I had to inspect the apartment and found a few other things that had to be corrected, which took another few days. So, all in all, it took about 6 weeks for my apartment to be ready to move into and I didn't know at the beginning when I'd be able to move in. Luckily, I had friends to stay with. This is also a large complex owned by a huge real-estate company with complexes in 4 states. I assume, with your son's background and history, that he is moving into a smaller community, or a single property, such as a 4 or 8-flat. I hope it works out for him. You've done enough. What concerns me is that he still doesn't seem able to manage money very well, and he doesn't seem to have much of a work ethic. And this "fear of living alone" thing, which I think is a very real fear, needs to be explored in therapy and dealt with. [/QUOTE]
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