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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 723845" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>Leafy if he does not comply he is looking at non negotiable jail time. I do hope that is enough to scare him.</p><p></p><p>I do wish I was a fly on the wall in the holding cells when his lawyer told him no chance of probation only jail time. He must have pooped his drawers. Cop mom probably filled his head with BS and he felt he was going to walk with a slap on the wrist and probation. All be it with a criminal record. The addict only wants out.</p><p>She let him chew on that morsel for a bit before enacting the intervention and proposing rehab, Crown (our version of DA saying parents had to support it). This is where she said he really broke down. He felt there was no way we would come through. She let him dwell on the why of that fact and impressed upon him how fortunate he was to have two loving parents. </p><p></p><p>He was in the first wagon over to the holding cells at the court and in the last wagon out. They are in the basement cold, damp no windows. Over crowded, you get pulled out and chained to a metal desk in a separate room when you have to speak with your lawyer. He wasn’t even on the court docket today. His chances of getting a spot in the courts even if he chose to plea was probably slim to none. </p><p></p><p>It makes me sad this this is what it takes to wake this boy up! It is what it is and this too shall pass.</p><p></p><p>I thanked his lawyer for being so invested in our Son and said we were meeting with him prior to court on Wed. To ensure he understands our position. She sent another message tonight. How amazing is she! She said;</p><p></p><p>“Perfect. He is ready to do rehab. He will abide by all your conditions. Stay strong my friend I am here for you and E. Let’s get him better so you can have your little E back.”</p><p></p><p>No nonsense deal, no fluffy oopsie I did it again is waiting for him this time. And he knows it.</p><p></p><p>It perplexes me so that they can be so hijacked by the drugs. I can honestly say I will never understand it. It is our reality yet is is a horror beyond Stephen Kings imagination.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 723845, member: 21895"] Leafy if he does not comply he is looking at non negotiable jail time. I do hope that is enough to scare him. I do wish I was a fly on the wall in the holding cells when his lawyer told him no chance of probation only jail time. He must have pooped his drawers. Cop mom probably filled his head with BS and he felt he was going to walk with a slap on the wrist and probation. All be it with a criminal record. The addict only wants out. She let him chew on that morsel for a bit before enacting the intervention and proposing rehab, Crown (our version of DA saying parents had to support it). This is where she said he really broke down. He felt there was no way we would come through. She let him dwell on the why of that fact and impressed upon him how fortunate he was to have two loving parents. He was in the first wagon over to the holding cells at the court and in the last wagon out. They are in the basement cold, damp no windows. Over crowded, you get pulled out and chained to a metal desk in a separate room when you have to speak with your lawyer. He wasn’t even on the court docket today. His chances of getting a spot in the courts even if he chose to plea was probably slim to none. It makes me sad this this is what it takes to wake this boy up! It is what it is and this too shall pass. I thanked his lawyer for being so invested in our Son and said we were meeting with him prior to court on Wed. To ensure he understands our position. She sent another message tonight. How amazing is she! She said; “Perfect. He is ready to do rehab. He will abide by all your conditions. Stay strong my friend I am here for you and E. Let’s get him better so you can have your little E back.” No nonsense deal, no fluffy oopsie I did it again is waiting for him this time. And he knows it. It perplexes me so that they can be so hijacked by the drugs. I can honestly say I will never understand it. It is our reality yet is is a horror beyond Stephen Kings imagination. [/QUOTE]
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