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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 723854" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>Oh Sam this is completely abling. That is a vision that makes my soul feel so good.</p><p></p><p>I learned something about bottom today. I know we all say they must reach there bottom. And I have said before my sons bottom has a basement and he likes to dwell there.</p><p></p><p>Today what I heard from his lawyer was that he reached a breaking point. It was his emotional bottom that he hit. Not mental or physical. But emotional. Zap Pow ....an epiphany. It was not really anything he has not been through before. But to know his way out was to have family and we were not there and he felt we would never be again suddenly the flood gates opened. He saw with his spiritual eye the damage he had done and owned it. Drug free and owned it.</p><p></p><p>Will it hold who knows. When I read stories and the RA says what turned them around many say something different. I was so tired, it was how the woman looked at me when she gave me the blanket. Often the same simple or traumatic gestures that have happened time and time again.</p><p></p><p>Different each time for each one. That’s is why where their is life there is hope. To love and detach. To not enable. To understand the difference between abling and loving vs enabling. Each step brings them to a realization one day at a time.</p><p></p><p>We only hope we do not lose them in the process.</p><p></p><p>How brave that woman is to stare in that face of addiction and see through it, see what you see, see what we all see when we look at our AC.</p><p></p><p>It is that spiritual and emotional bottom I believe that this is what turns them around.</p><p></p><p>Putting all the positive energy out to the universe, may your son find his way. May all of our AC find their way.</p><p></p><p>We make a difference each day, each action one by one Saving our little starfish that others simply see as hopeless trapped creatures.</p><p><a href="https://www.google.ca/search?q=starfish+printable+stoey&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-ca&client=safari#imgrc=ZCjNurw01gfCoM" target="_blank">starfish printable stoey - Google Search</a>:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 723854, member: 21895"] Oh Sam this is completely abling. That is a vision that makes my soul feel so good. I learned something about bottom today. I know we all say they must reach there bottom. And I have said before my sons bottom has a basement and he likes to dwell there. Today what I heard from his lawyer was that he reached a breaking point. It was his emotional bottom that he hit. Not mental or physical. But emotional. Zap Pow ....an epiphany. It was not really anything he has not been through before. But to know his way out was to have family and we were not there and he felt we would never be again suddenly the flood gates opened. He saw with his spiritual eye the damage he had done and owned it. Drug free and owned it. Will it hold who knows. When I read stories and the RA says what turned them around many say something different. I was so tired, it was how the woman looked at me when she gave me the blanket. Often the same simple or traumatic gestures that have happened time and time again. Different each time for each one. That’s is why where their is life there is hope. To love and detach. To not enable. To understand the difference between abling and loving vs enabling. Each step brings them to a realization one day at a time. We only hope we do not lose them in the process. How brave that woman is to stare in that face of addiction and see through it, see what you see, see what we all see when we look at our AC. It is that spiritual and emotional bottom I believe that this is what turns them around. Putting all the positive energy out to the universe, may your son find his way. May all of our AC find their way. We make a difference each day, each action one by one Saving our little starfish that others simply see as hopeless trapped creatures. [URL='https://www.google.ca/search?q=starfish+printable+stoey&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-ca&client=safari#imgrc=ZCjNurw01gfCoM']starfish printable stoey - Google Search[/URL]: [/QUOTE]
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