loses work it is all YOUR fault!! this was the root of an outburst in our entire household Monday night. His notebook with the data in for the science fair mysteriously disappeared. All was fine until he got in my face and said it was all MY fault. followed by husband backing him up. I tried to explain it is his responsibility not mine. followed by an hour or two of screaming at the top of our lungs. We all literally lost our voice. I can't take feeling like this and being the bad guy always. I can't take being left out of everything except the fights, then being told it is My fault and I enjoy it. Not to mention start it. My heart hurts. Even if I leave my heart will hurt and I can't take that pain. The only option to stop my heart from hurting are thoughts that I know are wrong. I wonder if they would even know.