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<blockquote data-quote="Origami" data-source="post: 646064" data-attributes="member: 18099"><p>Thanks Lil and IC. I'll talk to daughter in law about what she can do to protect herself financially. When all this blew up last year and she kicked him out originally (actually Nov. 2013), he wasn't being all that generous and was acting like it was her problem to figure out. Since they've reconciled, I'm not sure if he'd be as mean, but I don't know. </p><p></p><p>I don't think it's a matter off whether we'll ask him to leave, but when. husband seems to be thinking "immediately" and I'm thinking to give him a week or two. We'll continue to help out daughter in law and the kids until they can find another place. </p><p></p><p></p><p>MWM, you are so right. daughter in law said as much last night, that he's getting too comfortable at our place and knows that we'll take care of everyone. It's almost like he's forgotten about the independence he's always been so proud of and has taken a step back in responsibility and maturity. He had been living on his own since age 18 until all this mess started, taking care of his family, etc.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Again, you hit the nail on the head. He has already commented on this, and I think if he sees we are serious about correcting this situation he will take notice. He and brother have been on good terms lately, no more blowups like the ones that happened before, but I think younger difficult child resents what he calls "coddling the drug addict."</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Origami, post: 646064, member: 18099"] Thanks Lil and IC. I'll talk to daughter in law about what she can do to protect herself financially. When all this blew up last year and she kicked him out originally (actually Nov. 2013), he wasn't being all that generous and was acting like it was her problem to figure out. Since they've reconciled, I'm not sure if he'd be as mean, but I don't know. I don't think it's a matter off whether we'll ask him to leave, but when. husband seems to be thinking "immediately" and I'm thinking to give him a week or two. We'll continue to help out daughter in law and the kids until they can find another place. MWM, you are so right. daughter in law said as much last night, that he's getting too comfortable at our place and knows that we'll take care of everyone. It's almost like he's forgotten about the independence he's always been so proud of and has taken a step back in responsibility and maturity. He had been living on his own since age 18 until all this mess started, taking care of his family, etc. Again, you hit the nail on the head. He has already commented on this, and I think if he sees we are serious about correcting this situation he will take notice. He and brother have been on good terms lately, no more blowups like the ones that happened before, but I think younger difficult child resents what he calls "coddling the drug addict." [/QUOTE]
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