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difficult child 1 and Christmas
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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 640436" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>Whenever I have these kinds of questions, I tell myself to check my motives. If my motivations revolve around someone else's behavior, I'm setting myself up for disappointment. If they're about me, I tend to go with it but prepare myself for the outcome -- depending on the circumstances. If the outcome may cause me additional harm/emotional anguish, it's sometimes not worth it.</p><p></p><p>What is the motivation for wanting to send her a gift? If you truly are sending it for YOU, because you want to continue to show her you love her, then it may be worth a try for the address. I'd keep the gift minimal and not too personal though -- perhaps a gift card. If you're hoping that a gift may cause a shift in her behavior, then I'd let it go.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 640436, member: 1157"] Whenever I have these kinds of questions, I tell myself to check my motives. If my motivations revolve around someone else's behavior, I'm setting myself up for disappointment. If they're about me, I tend to go with it but prepare myself for the outcome -- depending on the circumstances. If the outcome may cause me additional harm/emotional anguish, it's sometimes not worth it. What is the motivation for wanting to send her a gift? If you truly are sending it for YOU, because you want to continue to show her you love her, then it may be worth a try for the address. I'd keep the gift minimal and not too personal though -- perhaps a gift card. If you're hoping that a gift may cause a shift in her behavior, then I'd let it go. [/QUOTE]
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