So, I talked to difficult child 1 today. She is still in jail and seems to be hanging in there. She says now they are saying 90 days in county jail and then Probation. However, she still has not been sentenced. This is just what she is picking up here and there. She is supposed to be calling tonight so I can find out more. (I was at work when she called) SO, husband still thinks we should allow her to come home when she is released. I am a little confused by this. For YEARS he has tried to get me to detach and to the point that I am at now. So, why is he going soft now??? I don't want her to live here. AT ALL!! I am not second guessing myself or wondering if it is the right thing. She will be 18 when released and I feel like I have put in "my time"!! Is this wrong?? Has anyone else experienced this with their spouse? TIA!! Just needed some feedback here!