She calls me yesterday afternoon all non-chalant, asking what I am doing. My response, working - same thing I do every week day. She tells me she is sitting outside a hotel and I asked her why she was sitting outside a hotel and she says I don't know, ask M (A hole). She says they are on a "break". I am silent. Then she says oh, guess what - I was arrested (she is laughing while she is telling me this). I ask her for what and she tells me shoplifting. I am disgusted. She tells me "at least I am telling you about it". Um, why?? What would make you think I would want to know about that?? She tells me they didn't transport her to our county, which means the "warrant" that supposedly was out for her must not exist. I told her I am not pleased about any of this and that I wished they would bring her to our county. I asked her how she got out and she said M bailed her out. I told her she will need to go to court and face the judge. I hope they put her in jail when she can't pay anything, but I know that probably won't happen. Though if they have her perform community service, she will probably mess that up. I had to force her to complete her service when she was on probation as a juvenile. I am not doing a thing to help her in this situation. I told her point blank that everytime she calls I am hoping she is calling me to tell me she is ready for help and change and instead I get this bologna. A mom can only take so much. You want to laugh about your arrest and talk about your loser lifestyle, call a loser friend, not me. I am getting to the point where I would prefer not hearing from her at all until she was clean. Still no idea if she is truly pregnant. She texted me the other day telling me she wasn't and I asked how she knew that. She thinks because she got her period, she isn't pregnant. I asked her if she knew she could still bleed while pregnant. Um, nope, she didn't know that (rolling eyes here). I told her only a doctor can confirm or deny the pregnancy and that she needed to get to a doctor. She says one of the days she will. OMG. How I wish I could just smack her upside the head SO hard!!!! Why oh why couldn't she get arrested on a drug charge???? I have been praying for her to get arrested and when she finally does, it is for shoplifting. :/ I have been reading when I can - been working 16 hour days here on a project I finally got completed this week. My heart goes out to all of you!!! What is going on with our difficult children???