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<blockquote data-quote="dlgallant" data-source="post: 48317" data-attributes="member: 3721"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: hearthope</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Sorry I don't know the whole story.</p><p></p><p>In your post it says part of the plea deal is the counseling she refuses to do.</p><p></p><p>Is she being allowed to choose which parts of the deal she will do?</div></div> </p><p></p><p>The prosecutor is allowing me some input into the plea deal, but not my daughter. Counseling is mandatory. She'll only be allowed minimal choices, like which community service. But right now she'd rather go to jail than counseling, but she doesn't think that makes her look irrational at all! ARGH</p><p></p><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Scent of Cedar I</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: rejectedmom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"></p><p></p><p> "It is your life and your choice. You know how I feel so lets not rehash all that again. I will continue to pray for you and I will write you when you are in jail." -RM </div></div></p><p></p><p>RM is right, I think. Too many times, our difficult child kids refuse to believe "consequences" apply to them. We can talk until we are blue in the face, but change nothing. </p><p></p><p>Is your daughter in an abusive relationship? (You had mentioned bruising on her cheeks in your post.)</p><p></p><p>Barbara </div></div> </p><p></p><p>Yes, unfortunately she is. This guy was in juvenile jail for assault. She claims he doesn't hurt her, but her explanations for the constant bruises don't add up. </p><p></p><p>I really hope she shows up today to start the process of dealing with all of this. The boyfriend's sister is now making threats against my daughter. I think the new drama will send difficult child back into hiding again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dlgallant, post: 48317, member: 3721"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: hearthope</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Sorry I don't know the whole story. In your post it says part of the plea deal is the counseling she refuses to do. Is she being allowed to choose which parts of the deal she will do?</div></div> The prosecutor is allowing me some input into the plea deal, but not my daughter. Counseling is mandatory. She'll only be allowed minimal choices, like which community service. But right now she'd rather go to jail than counseling, but she doesn't think that makes her look irrational at all! ARGH <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Scent of Cedar I</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: rejectedmom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> "It is your life and your choice. You know how I feel so lets not rehash all that again. I will continue to pray for you and I will write you when you are in jail." -RM </div></div> RM is right, I think. Too many times, our difficult child kids refuse to believe "consequences" apply to them. We can talk until we are blue in the face, but change nothing. Is your daughter in an abusive relationship? (You had mentioned bruising on her cheeks in your post.) Barbara </div></div> Yes, unfortunately she is. This guy was in juvenile jail for assault. She claims he doesn't hurt her, but her explanations for the constant bruises don't add up. I really hope she shows up today to start the process of dealing with all of this. The boyfriend's sister is now making threats against my daughter. I think the new drama will send difficult child back into hiding again. [/QUOTE]
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