UGHH I had a whole thing written and then it was gone. He got into a fight with some kid we had trouble with a few years ago, just a plain ole mean kid who used to flip us off when we'd be sitting outside. Well I guess he shoved Zack and he tried to ignore him and the kid kept at him so Zack knock him to the floor and hit him. The kid went and told on him. Now Zack is on probabtion and needs to behave, no matter what. His probabtion officer was called and she talked to him as well as checking back in on Friday with him. He has never been physcial with anyone before. He has raised his fist to me and has been mean towards his sister when he has had enough from her but never really hit anyone. I'm worried cause this kid is the type to tell him mommy and she will call the cops. I surely don't need a police officer showing up at my house tonight. A question I did have was is it a good idea to keep a journel on him?? I mean I have a notebook for his visits with questions and such but what about a daily journel?