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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 638592" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>I like this a lot. It is how I feel, often, as well.</p><p></p><p>Other times I am completely astounded that I am a mom who has had zero contact with her oldest son for 4 months now. I won't take his calls. I cannot. How did this happen to me? How can I be this person? What is wrong with me?</p><p></p><p>In short, walkinmyshoes, we get it. We have all, all been where you are. It sucks (I suspect that will get censored, but you know what I mean.). </p><p></p><p>I agree with the others that your daughter shows no sign of being OK with you, or being OK for you. Your best path to getting to the "tired and triumphant" state is to do as recovering suggests, get therapy, get in a group with shared experiences, post post post, and step by step, as slowly or as quickly as you can, detach from this dangerous toxic young woman while she is dangerous and toxic to you. For your own health and safety. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry beyond words that you share this experience with us. It is heartbreaking. But you can survive, prosper, laugh, flirt, and be OK. We are here to walk that walk with you.</p><p></p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 638592, member: 17269"] I like this a lot. It is how I feel, often, as well. Other times I am completely astounded that I am a mom who has had zero contact with her oldest son for 4 months now. I won't take his calls. I cannot. How did this happen to me? How can I be this person? What is wrong with me? In short, walkinmyshoes, we get it. We have all, all been where you are. It sucks (I suspect that will get censored, but you know what I mean.). I agree with the others that your daughter shows no sign of being OK with you, or being OK for you. Your best path to getting to the "tired and triumphant" state is to do as recovering suggests, get therapy, get in a group with shared experiences, post post post, and step by step, as slowly or as quickly as you can, detach from this dangerous toxic young woman while she is dangerous and toxic to you. For your own health and safety. I am sorry beyond words that you share this experience with us. It is heartbreaking. But you can survive, prosper, laugh, flirt, and be OK. We are here to walk that walk with you. Echo [/QUOTE]
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