thank you all for your support and prayers. I am deeply grateful. difficult child messages me on FB that he got the job. It's at a local pizza place. He mentioned he had to go to another location (12 miles away) on Sat. I didn't offer to drive him. I congratulated him. later he did ask if I would take him if he couldn't find a ride. I said I would. i also reminded him he had a therapy appointment tomorrow and said I would pay for that if he chose to go. he asked for more clothes, etc. and I met him across the street from where he is staying with them. It's just sooooo sad to see him. We barely spoke but it hurts.... Nancy, I agree with everyone you wrote in the other thread. Thank you my friend. I hate you had to be there to gain the specific wisdom only a difficult child can bring. Know what I mean?? gonna take tonight to watch mindless tv and cry. Tomorrow is another day. *praying for all who are addicted and all hurt by it.