UPDATE!!!
Okay - he was very edgy all morning - but he really tries to be calm. His stomach hurt all night last night.
We went to oral surgeon and he was talking and talking and talking - & the regular nurse was out so a substitute nurse was there today (I didn't know that was going Occupational Therapist (OT) happen) & anyway - SHE was so giggly and talked fast - had to be ADHD (LOL)
difficult child said to nurse when she was hooking him up to monitor heart during procedure "Wait for me to get ready!" - I said "difficult child - she isn't sticking you yet." He says "I know - I juse want to be ready" - and he is talking and getting louder and louder and talking - VERY obvious he was nervous - but he was VERY VERY VERY GOOD!!!!
Starting the IV was almost a problem - but the talkative & giggly nurse kept hopping round talking and got him distrated while the DOCTOR started the IV! Weird - but she worked after all! LOL
Well, prodedure lasted about one hour and they got me and Dr. said that difficult child was funny because he was laughing and talking and stopped on a dime to fall asleep. He said that was funny.
He was okay on the way home - and once inside - started getting mad because he is hungry and his mouth is bleeding and he wants to eat but not taste blood - etc. etc. (I don't blame him). He sat in recliner and crashed - for an hour! Woke up mad again - LOL! I had mashed potatoes & gravy (cooled, of course) ready for him along with pain medications. He ate all the potatoes (I need to cook more) and husband bought him a milkshake to eat with a spoon.
difficult child watching cartoons & music videos (going back & forth) and is donig good.
I did not lose my cool with him when he got mad - I understand he is scared, in pain, and hungry and doesn't know how to handle it. I'm proud of myself.
Thanks for everyone's prayers and thoughts!! Much appreciated!!!