After 10 days in custody my difficult child is back home, not speaking to me still, but generally behaving. He is trying to manipulate grandma to buy him some new clothes and threatening not to go to school if she doesn't. I told her he has more than enough to wear. If he violates probation again by skipping school again it will be back to orange jumpsuit every day - not fashionable! It was a long 10 days for everyone including me. Thanks for all the support I got here on my earlier thread.