Ok we are not home for 1 hour and it's starting already. husband is here today and tomorrow oh lord. So the hospital put in writing that an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) is where difficult child needs to be with out any question. Now we have to get the mental clinic we are working with to see this as well as the insurance company. Well husband is in a bad mood now because difficult child was screaming at him to get out of the room. husband is yelling at me that this kid is destroying our family and difficult child just dont care...(not in front of difficult child). I am at a loss of what to do anymore. I suggested calling the crisis # they gave us in case this happened. husband don't want to got the emergency room again and than again to the psychiatric hospital again to be told there is nothing they can do for us but medicate him and stabalize him.(thought that is what they had already done).. I going to get a hair cut and hope all hell don't brake lose while I'm gone!!! I'm just emotional spent...easy child is at a friends house and has not seen all this yet. Thank you for all your support.