He has always complained and made dinner unpleasant if I did not make something he likes. I made a nice Sunday dinner last night. difficult child asked what we were having and I told him and he seemed pleased. When it came time to eat he looked at his plate and began saying how nasty it looked. husband said you don't have to like it but do not be rude and he told him how much time and effort it took for me to cook it, blah, blah, blah, difficult child took a bite and spit it right out very loudly. We asked him to leave the table and informed him no dessert (chocolate pie, his favorite) He freaked out and tantrumed but whatever ... He is very mannerly and sweet to everyone else but me and husband ... Little turd !