She has been gone since Friday afternoon. She took $15.00 and we smelled weed in our home. This a clear boundary we have set. She ran when we confronted her. I only got a surely FB reply when I tried to see if she was ok. Today was her 2nd appointment with the therapist she picked from the first Residential Treatment Center (RTC). husband and I went instead since she isn't home. Of course she had not been totally honest. She withheld info like crazy-even when he point blank asked if she had outstanding charges. In her FB reply she said she didn't even think she was going to court-probably lost the info.(delusion) She doesn't know we have a court date as of Sat. New therapist is keeping difficult child but will let her know that is only if he can meet with us(she'll have to sign a release) and report to court. Felt good to talk to him today. So much for staying out of it. He told us we could not given her situation and Borderline (BPD). He also advised us to relax on our worry that we will have to throw her out in 2 months. I needed to hear that because I just could not see how it would end anyway but tragically. He is going to help her get to vocational rehab. He thinks she will need the support and can even have her college paid for. I had no idea. They will help her with independent living skills as well. But....she will have to work the program. Please pray for her safety. I am ok-not panicked-just a healthy angst.