He said hi mom, I said HI, I love you... He said love you too (automatic response) then he said. I am not ready to come home because I am still mad at you. I said that is fair. We can talk more about that with your therapist. He said, it will take me five days because I am not over it. I said again, that is fair, good job for telling me. He said, and if it takes longer then it will be longer. OMG I sure as heck hope they are not giving him the idea he gets to fully decide. He needs clear instructions that mom is the boss because that is Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) 101!!!!!