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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 7939" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>suz, the only things we asked of him are;</p><p>1. keep your room clean (not spotless, but dirty clothes up in hamper so we can tell you have a floor)</p><p>2. Be in by 10:00 p.m. weekdays (we are up at 4 am during the week, and must go to bed at decent hour to make it at work. easy child also goes to bed early)</p><p>3. if you are not coming home for the night, let me know.</p><p></p><p>I believe that this is not too much to ask for, The reason I got so strict about calling and curfews was he has called easy child on her cell in the middle of the night to unlock the door for him. easy child has school and volleyball practice afterwards-a full schedule. How thoughtless of her for him to do this? more than one time?</p><p></p><p>We have outside and inside dogs, if you come home in the middle of the night The entire family is woken up by the dogs barking. He knows this and he continued to just show up whenever. We all have to get up and leave for school and work and he slept all day. He would get up and be gone by the time we got home only to come home in the middle of the night again and repeat it.</p><p></p><p>Now he just stays gone, no idea where he is or when he will show back up. I think I am ready to say just stay gone. We are all weary of walking on eggshells when he is here. I guess I am angry too that he is not working, but The judge told him I could be responsible for restitution to the family he robbed. I feel like if there was any remorse or concern about what will happen he would be doing all he could to find a job and help pay that family back. He would be just as satisfied if I had to pay that family back</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 7939, member: 2389"] suz, the only things we asked of him are; 1. keep your room clean (not spotless, but dirty clothes up in hamper so we can tell you have a floor) 2. Be in by 10:00 p.m. weekdays (we are up at 4 am during the week, and must go to bed at decent hour to make it at work. easy child also goes to bed early) 3. if you are not coming home for the night, let me know. I believe that this is not too much to ask for, The reason I got so strict about calling and curfews was he has called easy child on her cell in the middle of the night to unlock the door for him. easy child has school and volleyball practice afterwards-a full schedule. How thoughtless of her for him to do this? more than one time? We have outside and inside dogs, if you come home in the middle of the night The entire family is woken up by the dogs barking. He knows this and he continued to just show up whenever. We all have to get up and leave for school and work and he slept all day. He would get up and be gone by the time we got home only to come home in the middle of the night again and repeat it. Now he just stays gone, no idea where he is or when he will show back up. I think I am ready to say just stay gone. We are all weary of walking on eggshells when he is here. I guess I am angry too that he is not working, but The judge told him I could be responsible for restitution to the family he robbed. I feel like if there was any remorse or concern about what will happen he would be doing all he could to find a job and help pay that family back. He would be just as satisfied if I had to pay that family back [/QUOTE]
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