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difficult child Lied Again and Now SO May be breaking up with-me
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 51432" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Wow. I'm really sorry for all that happened. My best guess (not being psychic) is that maybe your daughter resents your SO, even if he was good to her--I know my kids never liked me with anyone. I think it is hard for anyone to commit to us when we have difficult children. Unfortunately, difficult child kids tend to cry "abuse" often, especially on, but not limited to, SOs and they can either accept the whole package or get out and, in my opinion, getting out is better, if they really can't handle it. It's a lot to handle. in my opinion one letter to him should be enough of an apology. Every day makes it seem like you're maybe using her to get him back and, if she isn't really remorseful, it's meaningless anyways. </p><p>I don't know much about your SO or your relationship with him, but it is unlikely that your child won't behave badly towards him again. If your GP actually believes her enough to call CPS...hopefully, it won't go there. Wish I had more advice, but my own experience was that even my easy child kids disliked other men with me so I mostly dated on "his weekends" until I became engaged. Even after the marriage, my hub had to put up with a lot from my kids, no matter how nice he tried to be. Hugs and I hope this gets resolved on all ends. I know it's hard.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 51432, member: 1550"] Wow. I'm really sorry for all that happened. My best guess (not being psychic) is that maybe your daughter resents your SO, even if he was good to her--I know my kids never liked me with anyone. I think it is hard for anyone to commit to us when we have difficult children. Unfortunately, difficult child kids tend to cry "abuse" often, especially on, but not limited to, SOs and they can either accept the whole package or get out and, in my opinion, getting out is better, if they really can't handle it. It's a lot to handle. in my opinion one letter to him should be enough of an apology. Every day makes it seem like you're maybe using her to get him back and, if she isn't really remorseful, it's meaningless anyways. I don't know much about your SO or your relationship with him, but it is unlikely that your child won't behave badly towards him again. If your GP actually believes her enough to call CPS...hopefully, it won't go there. Wish I had more advice, but my own experience was that even my easy child kids disliked other men with me so I mostly dated on "his weekends" until I became engaged. Even after the marriage, my hub had to put up with a lot from my kids, no matter how nice he tried to be. Hugs and I hope this gets resolved on all ends. I know it's hard. [/QUOTE]
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