I still have not talked to difficult child since the big exit but husband has not been able to help himself. She showed up here unexpectedly yesterday and wanted to come in and lie down. Evidently, her new family wasn't home and haven't given her a key so she couldn't get in. husband did not let her come in and talked to her outside. She started the usual . . . she was our daughter and why weren't we treating her like one . . . seems like she doesn't connect her actions with the consequences.
Anyway, today she called and told husband that she had been let go from her job at the new salon. She had been there about a month. According to her, it was because of complaints about her haircuts. I have a feeling that there is more to the story. There always is with difficult child. I am sure that she was stealing from the first salon she worked for since her bathroom closet looked like a beauty supply store and wonder if she got caught at this one.
She actually had the nerve to ask husband for a "loan" to tide her over until the fall when she is going back to school (more on that later). She asked for $300 and told husband she would sign a contract. husband told her that all of the bills and credit cards she never paid back were also contracts and that contracts obviously don't mean much to her.
Can you believe this? After stealing our credit card and stealing some of my clothes on her explosive exit, she thinks that we are going to give her money? Seriously?
husband held his ground and suggested that she get out there and look for another job just like everybody else. He also got online and checked her claims that she had already applied for the fall semester and she lied about that, too. She also never turned in the paperwork about her DUI that the school had requested so her file is currently suspended.
The more that I read about borderline personality disorder the more I see my difficult child.
The drama never ends.
~Kathy
Anyway, today she called and told husband that she had been let go from her job at the new salon. She had been there about a month. According to her, it was because of complaints about her haircuts. I have a feeling that there is more to the story. There always is with difficult child. I am sure that she was stealing from the first salon she worked for since her bathroom closet looked like a beauty supply store and wonder if she got caught at this one.
She actually had the nerve to ask husband for a "loan" to tide her over until the fall when she is going back to school (more on that later). She asked for $300 and told husband she would sign a contract. husband told her that all of the bills and credit cards she never paid back were also contracts and that contracts obviously don't mean much to her.
Can you believe this? After stealing our credit card and stealing some of my clothes on her explosive exit, she thinks that we are going to give her money? Seriously?
husband held his ground and suggested that she get out there and look for another job just like everybody else. He also got online and checked her claims that she had already applied for the fall semester and she lied about that, too. She also never turned in the paperwork about her DUI that the school had requested so her file is currently suspended.
The more that I read about borderline personality disorder the more I see my difficult child.
The drama never ends.
~Kathy
