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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 647081" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>To visit or not to visit, that is the question.....</p><p>In the early years when my son was in juvenile jail we visited regularly, as time went on and he went to adult jail my visits were less frequent. When husband and I moved from CO to the Midwest difficult child was in jail doing 2 years. It felt strange to leave him even though we didn't visit that often (the jail was a 2 hour drive)</p><p>Once we got moved and settled we communicated via letters and that worked best for us. While it was sad that he was locked up it afforded me some peace as I didn't have to wonder where he was or what he was doing (like breaking into my house while husband and I were at work)</p><p> </p><p>He was in jail twice last year and again we communicated via letters. What is really sad is the only time he reaches out to us is when he's in jail, or wants something.</p><p> </p><p>All in all, life is good and I do my best to enjoy each and everyday.</p><p> </p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/dance.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":dance:" title="dance :dance:" data-shortname=":dance:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 647081, member: 18516"] To visit or not to visit, that is the question..... In the early years when my son was in juvenile jail we visited regularly, as time went on and he went to adult jail my visits were less frequent. When husband and I moved from CO to the Midwest difficult child was in jail doing 2 years. It felt strange to leave him even though we didn't visit that often (the jail was a 2 hour drive) Once we got moved and settled we communicated via letters and that worked best for us. While it was sad that he was locked up it afforded me some peace as I didn't have to wonder where he was or what he was doing (like breaking into my house while husband and I were at work) He was in jail twice last year and again we communicated via letters. What is really sad is the only time he reaches out to us is when he's in jail, or wants something. All in all, life is good and I do my best to enjoy each and everyday. :dance: [/QUOTE]
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