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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 640671" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Oh, sweetie, how did I know?</p><p></p><p>It has happened to me soooooooooo many times until I was shaking and crying when I got home. I had to grow bold enough to say,"Sorry, I'm not coming." When they asked, "Why?" I'd just say "Other plans." When they asked about the plans I said, "Oh, I'll tell you later. Got to go. Running late." *click*</p><p></p><p>Eventually they figured it out and probably felt bad (bad that they wouldn't have their fav play toy to abuse, most likely). I never thought about how they'd feel, once I made my decision. If I actually DID hurt them a little, well, I doubt my absence would have anyone shaking and in tears. I decided to live my life the way it was best for me, not for my DNA abusers.</p><p></p><p>I do not miss them. I only miss the people I wish they COULD have been, but were not.</p><p></p><p>Hugs. Be nice to YOU today.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 640671, member: 1550"] Oh, sweetie, how did I know? It has happened to me soooooooooo many times until I was shaking and crying when I got home. I had to grow bold enough to say,"Sorry, I'm not coming." When they asked, "Why?" I'd just say "Other plans." When they asked about the plans I said, "Oh, I'll tell you later. Got to go. Running late." *click* Eventually they figured it out and probably felt bad (bad that they wouldn't have their fav play toy to abuse, most likely). I never thought about how they'd feel, once I made my decision. If I actually DID hurt them a little, well, I doubt my absence would have anyone shaking and in tears. I decided to live my life the way it was best for me, not for my DNA abusers. I do not miss them. I only miss the people I wish they COULD have been, but were not. Hugs. Be nice to YOU today. [/QUOTE]
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