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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 640676" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>I agree, and because it causes you so much pain: train yourself out of it. When invited somewhere to be with difficult child stop and think, how is this going to play out. Give your mind some time to let things marinate and think it through. Stop. Listen (to your inner voice) Plan (yeah or nay) and then react. Sounds like you need to work on the word "NO" for a while as well.</p><p>Also I think you are being a little hard on yourself about what other people think. I would think most people are really thinking, "look had bad that girl is treating her mother or that woman". Not the other way around! (and if it family, well just how much to you value the opinions of those who don't recognize this hurtful behavior or relish in it?)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 640676, member: 18366"] I agree, and because it causes you so much pain: train yourself out of it. When invited somewhere to be with difficult child stop and think, how is this going to play out. Give your mind some time to let things marinate and think it through. Stop. Listen (to your inner voice) Plan (yeah or nay) and then react. Sounds like you need to work on the word "NO" for a while as well. Also I think you are being a little hard on yourself about what other people think. I would think most people are really thinking, "look had bad that girl is treating her mother or that woman". Not the other way around! (and if it family, well just how much to you value the opinions of those who don't recognize this hurtful behavior or relish in it?) [/QUOTE]
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